Dear Frank,
I have been going out with my boyfriend for about a month now and a few days ago I went for a meal with my girlfriends and took him with me to introduce him. The meal went fine but on the way home my boyfriend told me that one of my friends squeezed his thigh under the table while we were having drinks!
I've known this girl for almost seven years and don't know what to do. She has been a very good friend for a long time, and I don't want to fall out with her over a month old relationship. Should I just put it down to having a few too many wines or confront her?
From,
Confused and upset
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Hey Sweetcakes,
If you believe the broad in question has touched up your fella, you need to bite the bullet and confront her - no matter how long you’ve been friends.
Ask yourself kid, is it something you’d expect her to do? Or is it out of character for her?
On the other hand, us guys can be territorial and he might be scheming to keep you to himself. Is he on the needy side?
All you can do is trust your own instincts and decide who you think is out of line. I’d talk to them both and gage reactions. You’ll soon figure out what’s going on.
Keep your chin up, Doll!
If you believe the broad in question has touched up your fella, you need to bite the bullet and confront her - no matter how long you’ve been friends.
Ask yourself kid, is it something you’d expect her to do? Or is it out of character for her?
On the other hand, us guys can be territorial and he might be scheming to keep you to himself. Is he on the needy side?
All you can do is trust your own instincts and decide who you think is out of line. I’d talk to them both and gage reactions. You’ll soon figure out what’s going on.
Keep your chin up, Doll!
